Goals?

Okay, so I'm a list maker.  I have lists of what I need to get done and by when, I have lists of things to get from the store, I have lists in my calendar...and most of the time I forget these lists.  It never fails.  My goal over the next few weeks is to review some of the products that have helped me on my fitness journey.  This, of course, all depends on my ability to survive my daughter's high school graduation and keep my sanity!  The past 18 years have flown by, faster than any mother could dream.  And although we each have our own goals in life, as a parent, we have those goals for our children as well.  My youngest will be a running back for the Chicago Bears, my middle daughter will be a doctor (probably something dealing with skin or something gross like toenails or fungus!) and I always thought my oldest would be a teacher.  Now, over the past few months, I've come to the realization that if she ends up living her dream, I will be happy.  A few weeks ago, she informed me that her destiny was to work at Bath and Body forever.  Of course, she was informed that was not an option.  She is a licensed CNA and why in the world would she want to take a pay cut?!?!  "Because I'll smell good all the time!"  I suppose that could be a perk, but is it realistic?

Over the last few weeks, I've had more than plenty time to reflect on our relationship, the trials and tribulations.  We're so much alike that we often times butt heads...and that would be putting it mildly!  Of course we have the similar physical characteristics - we're often time confused as sisters instead of mother and daughter - which is A-OK in my book!!  But we also have a ton of fun confusing others by answering each others' phones - rumor on the street is we sound identical...Words of wisdom - be very careful in what you say if you call one of us...especially if you are wanting to share a secret :)

In my reflection time, I've come to the realization that no matter how many lists one makes, in the end those lists are only a guide.  You can follow those lists by the letter, but in my experience, I have found that straying from those lists once in a while, opens the doors to new opportunities and adventures.  Heck, if I would have followed my list to a T - I would not be guiding others in their health and fitness journey, which I have come to love and enjoy!  So in the randomness of life, it is important to remember that it is okay to stray from the infamous lists and goals, as long as you let them guide you in a positive direction.  But even then, my lists will not refrain me from reminding Kait that she needs to keep to her lists - especially in making sure her college work gets done, and she comes home to visit mom every other weekend!  Of course, I have plenty of time - August is a long ways away - right?